I’ve always known that at some level that I’m great, but at times, I’ve found it difficult to fully live out my potential and truly direct my life the way I want. I didn’t always fully feel like I could just be me. A sense of deep happiness and purpose eluded me.
When I worked in the business world, I was told to hide my emotions. There seemed to be negative consequences related to expressing my emotions that could affect my employment, earning a promotion, or potentially damaging a relationship. Being vulnerable felt too risky for my career. I spent a lot of energy tolerating people and situations and consequently my performances sometimes lacked its full potential.
Emotions are part of our human experience though. As I gained self-awareness, I learned that it’s much healthier to go through the emotion and then to the solution, instead of moving around the feelings. Otherwise, the root thoughts and feelings remain and grow.
Now that I know better who I am, what I want, and what’s important to me, I’m better able to choose how I think and feel about a situation or a person. My mindset has shifted to one that is more motivating and energizing. The result is that I live out my greatness more fully and I feel more at peace. I feel a lot more successful, happy, and fulfilled getting to be fully me.